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There was a country, a country of spirited and adept men, finding itself in the path of recovery from the heavy blows of imperialistic pas...

Wednesday, January 06, 2010

I thought of switching over to professional blogging with refined stuff  instead of  just writing funny things.But i'm made to write one more post with the same old touch here.This must be the most abused and most mistaken concept in human history. These are the things which i observed for a long time and i thought of coming up with a post on this.This  is all about that hallucination or illusion or mirage which is otherwise called LOVE in common terms(this is not exactly the love that Mother Theresa talks about ) :P .

                        It is said that Love turns one's life and it gives inspiration to go up in life.I think only the first part holds true .Love turns one's life, not from mediocrity to greatness but it turns life from mediocrity to a pathetic scenario.The second part happens only in movies.Basically i never thought that i will write a post of this sort.(This is outta my area of interest).But when i see people doing all sorts of non sense in the name of love, to a point i get irriataed.(enga ponalum lov lovunu torture panranunga.Avavanuku 1000 prechana na ungaluku idhan prachanya da???..kadavule  :( ).As a matter of fact  love is mistaken by most  people.

      There is a theory which was proposed by Abraham Maslow, Heirarchy of needs.This theory is a pyramid depicting the levels of human needs.At the bottom of the pyramid are the “Basic needs” like food and shelter. The 2nd level is “Security and Stability.”  The 3rd level of need is “Love and Belonging,” when individuals have taken care of themselves , they are ready to share themselves with others. The 4th level is the “Esteem” level, the level of success and status. The top of the pyramid, “Self-actualization,” occurs when individuals reach a state of harmony.But these days Love  is the first  priority .Whether  they have security and stability or not, that doesn't matter they fall in love. Carrer,life are secondary.

They start this  in kindergarden itself.(Like vivek..molachu moonu ela vidala,unaku indha vayasulaye love ah..Adhuvum unna vida periya size ponnu kooda va...).. :D
 Basically this kinda things  happen with almost everyone especially in their adolescence .It comes in different  flavors like infatuation, crush, love or at least as an attraction.But whether you understand it and how you handle that and what you learn out of that matters.Even i got attracted to some(very few like Julia Roberts,Nicole,Catherine zeta Jones,Katrina kaif)) girls over the years.But i knew that its not love and i simply rejected them because they are not up to my mark :P :P.If you get trapped and if  you are gonna be left behind then you have to endure that pain(Remeber sethu climax :P ).If you are a guy who looks for a girl immediately after breaking up from a relationship then it doesn't matter.But if you are a guy(like us) who say cinema dialogs that love is divine and who thinks  love is a serious affair then better you don't even think about  that.

          Einstein said that Love at first sight is purely biological.I don't know why Einstein said that.But it gives an impression like love itself is purely biological now. If it is love it  should be a genuine feeling and it should not be because the girl or guy is so hot. It should not be an affair of estrogen and androgen. To be true these are up to the individual and its their way of going about life(epdiyo ponga, ennamo pannunga da).But when it affects others,then for sure  you can expect blogs of this sort.These guys irritate us in the name of love. (busla, cinema theatrela,parkla,college la,office la enga ponalum ivanunga panra attuzhiyam thangala)...

         I get irritated  when i see two kinda people who often get on my nerves.Guys who use the word friendship and the girls who use the word brother in specific situations. Normally  these guys will start the conversation with a girl whom they like with a unparallel enthusiasm.If their friends find what exactly this culprit is doing they will say that  its friendship and she is a true friend (ama Thalapathi Rajni natpu...pisirandhayar koperunchozan natpu...).Some day  they will come with a grief stricken face and say "Buddy  i think I'm in love with that girl."(idhu enaku eppove theriyume..muyal pudikra naye moonja pathale theriydha da?).

           Falling in love with a girl who is a good friend is not a sin.If the friendship slowly turns into love after knowing each other well,then  that's a different story there is nothing wrong in that.But if you are in love and if you  start that relationship in the name of  friendship, that's wrong.Basically the intention counts.

              Contrary to the title Love is th elixir of life If you have found true love .These kinda of love will truly inspire you to reach the pinnacle.Guys finally what I wanna say is "To get a good life is more important than to get a good wife"(punch podhuma ;) ..).Love is a beautiful thing ,do not abuse it or demean it.Fall in love after knowing what love exactly is.All those what i said are just a small portion.More stupid things happen like  committing suicide( which is a total stupidity) and opposing  parents, running away from home etc etc coz of love. This is because people don't understand  

                         "Love is part of life and It is not the heart of life.Better know that"


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