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There was a country, a country of spirited and adept men, finding itself in the path of recovery from the heavy blows of imperialistic pas...

Monday, July 26, 2010


Last time around i desperately took up "Rab ne" Movie for my post for two reasons.One,i liked the movie lot and said to myself that i should write about it someday,which i did.Two,i wanted to turn my attention to something else since i was absolutely in a weird mood.Anything i would have written reflecting that mindset would not have pleased anyone.So i decided to take up something which can be pacifying.But now i have decided to come up with what i am pondering over so that i say the things that has to be said.

Its said that Grief doesn't come alone.I am exactly feeling the meaning of those words now.I'm rocked by a series of things in which not even one is on the positive side.OMG !!!Not even one!!!.I'm loosing the grip on things that happen to me.Suddenly i feel everything that cheered me up is moving away from me and all the new things that I'm getting points to a dark spell..Nothing cheers me up.Can that really happen?.Can everything that happens be negative to someone.Are the things that all happens in a period of time can be bad?.Maybe I can not see the brighter side of the things these days. Maybe I am pessimistic and I am exaggerating.Maybe I am not myself these days.Or is it that  i never had an personal identity which  is now considered lost by me.


In that case Who the hell really I am?.Whats my nature and characteristics?. How would i behave and react?.Is there any predefined protocols defining my being,nature,characteristics,behavior and reaction.Are these behaviors,characters( bla bla bla)  predefined and predetermined as the  functions and attributes are defined for a program in C++.(I'm sorry i know that is a creepy example but this bloody mind can not think much more now.. :P).Has god planted a chip inside every human which has those logic that defines persons nature?.Or is it every human behaves in a random way according to the situation as opposed to the predefined attributes which possibly could have been inculcated in mind by the creator.If i do have those built in chip which can instruct me,what should i do now?.Whatever the hell is...I simply wanted to know whether i have my own set of those bla bla defined things.


All these stupid questions were thrown in when i did not know what should i do and when i can not make out  whats happening around me,to make a decision.After a bit of contemplation i thought if  i had a pattern or style of  dealing with things it would have helped me now.That is where this questions rose?.Forget about them.Let me stop these questions about my make and go to the other part.Why the hell do my mind cares and worries even then it knows that my make has the most logic-less,pompous,I-can-be-alone notion.Why the hell it tries to give a damn about excelling when i believe that i don't have to prove myself to anyone and i don't have to impress anyone.Why the hell, when i know that i have enough stupid friends(very very poor souls) who still believe that I'm clever and all that.After reading this if you think that this is why i need a psychiatrist then you are wrong,way to go Bro!. Don't jump to conclusions.


Every mind comes up with these kinda things at least once and  it doubts itself and eventually finds an answer what exactly it is or it just design a ideal mode of brain that can see through the grinds of life and settles with that.Its quite common when a person is subjected to adversities.I'm no exception.That is how it goes?.This is quite normal.


And I can reason why i thought i might need a psychiatrist as follows.Keeping all these above frets aside there is one thing i find intriguing about myself.Already as i said about my notion of not having  to prove myself to others.Why do i think i don't have to impress people when the entire world works the opposite way trying to pounce on every opportunity to make an impression which is true or otherwise.I'm no complaining here,its how it goes,its how it works.One has to do all these things to survive but the point is i don't feel like doing it when i have to do that.To a point i restrict myself from giving  an impression.I sometimes feel like trying to impress others is dirty and come up with  theories that say that people should get real glimpse of what I'm rather than a possible false impression.Why do i think i need not prove myself to anyone and it is enough if i prove Who am i to myself.


Where the hell do i get this good for nothing theories from?. Why i think differently the other way around,why can't i accept and pursue the general  custom.Why i don't come to terms with a thing which is by and large easily acceptable to others.In short why my mind doesn't work like an ordinary brain?.Is there anything wrong with it?.Hell man,There it goes...Do i need a psychiatrist to wire it up?


You end up thinking like this when you are battered and pushed to ground.You have two choices in the times of dilemmas one,you can quietly accept whatever happens and hope for things to turn brooding inside feeling like loser who can't do anything.Two,to take the things on hearing your inner voice and risk everything even it might lead to a disaster and feel good like a fighter who enjoys the defeat since he knew he gave it everything he had and tried his best.(yeah i know its bit of dramatic.Bit of overdose..He he..kindly tolerate this one :P :P).


Which one should be chosen?.Should i choose to be a normal one in a million and get diluted in the ocean of just another human and act perfectly like others loosing my identity.Or should i ascertain my notion of being unique keeping my individuality and identity even though this might be perceived by others as stupidity and moronity.Predicament  like this either make one very strong or it completely cripples you.But this recent installment(yes,it comes regularly like this now and then..Funny...)has given me a lesson.You know what you want in life when you are given what you don't like.That has exactly happened to me now  reckon.Whatever!!!.I know like hell what i want in life.(pretty tough way to learn really).

My Notes:
Another June&July Goddamn it.I see a peculiar pattern here in my life,always some thing  happens in my life which is a turning point(usually not a pleasing one ) .But it it ends up on a pleasant note every Feb after reaching the peak by Dec and Jan)..Ohhh!!!..C'mmon i sound like a astrologer,i know that but can't help.Its been the trend for the past four or 5 years.(This is also i think i need a psychiatrist..For this loony habit of finding patterns..:P :P.. he he)...Seriously speaking at least half of all this can be justified with the things that are happening.I see a lot of changes happening in life which are not pleasant as i said already.People move away,life brings big turns and twists,above all i feel like some one else devoid of my usual self.Forget about it.Things will turn.Evvvalavo panitom idha panna matoma...

Finally i just started writing something else and it ended up this way.I just kept it since it was dramatic and emotional like T.V serial.Especially the last 2 paras were quite extreme.I think i got better in gioving build ups..:P ;P ..(Hope it doesn't bore like T.V serial).It will be one more heart breaker.God!can't take it so pls Don't think that way.

I dedicate this to all who are in the verge of thinking that they are turning mad.cheers buddy!!!..You are about to touch greatness..At least as a different nuts of course...(he he..that is people who turn others mad by these kinda theories...)

Hope it interests you for the style of narration and presentation if not the content.If you wanna abuse just feel free...Ada vazhkaila idhellam sagajamappa..Its all in the game.



Sunday, July 11, 2010


One fine evening,two friends chatting and relaxing with a glass of wine in their hands.One of them is a hairstylist and the conversation takes place in his saloon.
"Dude!I got something to say.But tell me that  you won't  say that  to anyone else.TOP SECRET",says one.
The other says, "Not  until i die.I wouldn't tell anyone.Go ahead."
"Ok!(with a wry gentle smile).Love has happened in my life.I'm in love with a girl(Blushing)".
"Wow!!..That is fantastic man.Wonderful.Congratulations.Who is that lucky girl buddy?".
"I'm in love With my...my... wife!(With little feelings..)I love her(Rascal enna da peelings.. :p)But sadly she doesn't love me".
"How come??..She has to love you.If she doesn't ,just give her couple of slaps man...",suggests the other friend.
Sounds very strange and stupid.Yes,it is.This is one of the scene from "Rab ne bana di jodi" movie.The story and the logic  might be Hilarius and illogical if you see from the outset .But when i saw, it was really entertaining and enjoyable coz of the fact that it was well presented and well made.I kinda liked some scenes frame by frame.

Surinder shani (Shah Rukh) is a very introverted,soft and silent guy(To the extent that he can not say his love to his wife..C'mmon man,,this is bit too much.. :P)..He works in Punjab power as a clerk.Movie opens up with the marriage ceremony of Thani(Anushka sharma) who is the daughter of Shah Rukh's professor.Earlier the professor starts the marriage talk for tying the nuptial bond between Anushka and Shah Rukh.But he could not since Anushka brushes away this talks by revealing that she  is  in love with some one else.And now Anushka is getting married to the guy she wants. Shah Rukh is invited for the marriage and he sees her, he falls in love at first sight with her.But what to do?.She is gonna be someone's wife in few hours.

Call it fortune or fate Anushka's marriage stops.Fate brings a big twist in the lives of both hero and heroine. The bride groom and his family dies in an accident when arriving to the marriage hall. Anushka's father also suffers cardiac arrest due to this shocking news.In his death bed he asks Shah Rukh to marry Anushka and convinces Anushka for the same.He dies eventually and after that marriage takes place.Anushka is in a awful mindset since in a span of  couple of days everything changed.So for the initial few days she shuts herself in a room and doesn't even talk to SRK.


After few days she realizes that its not fair to show her frustration on SRK and she apologizes for the way she behaved and adds that there is no more love left in her to share with anyone.But poor SRK's love towards her wife grows everyday..Since he is so smitten by Anushka he thinks of the ways in which he can impress her.(the things which he does and the way he sights his wife is so funny..He he.. ).When things were like this Anushka who feels bored staying in home seeks SRK's permission to join a dance class called Dancing Jodi no.1.(OMG... Ingayuma da...)

The  conversation at the start of this post takes place in such a situation.SRK and his friend think that Anushka is not interested in Shah Rukh coz of his Goody-Goody old bear like looks.So the barber friend vows Shah Rukh to give a complete make over.He turns him into a ultramodern guy.After changing the looks he goes to meet Anushka in the dance class and she doesn't recognize him(this is bit cinematic..How come a wife could not identify her husband.Is SRK's barber friend from hollywood to change him completely).SRK uses this edge and joins the dance class pretending that he is someone else(Raj) and tries to win her love.


He says to his friend that he will try to impress her and it will be a Win-Win situation whoever wins(Be it Surinder or Raj).He starts this playfully and as time goes Anushka falls in love with Raj.At one point of time Suinder feels like a loser when he knows that Anushka gets inclined towards Raj.Finally what happens at the end and who was chosen by Anushka,either the boring Surinder or the flirting Raj and whether they win the Jodi No.1 contest or not  forms the rest of the story.

If you just see the story its completely stupid there are many logical loopholes but one thing makes the story all the more interesting and awesome.That is SRK's acting.His intense sentimental  and touching acting as Surinder stands out.The scene in which he talks alone in his friend's  saloon where he challenges the doll(considering him as Raj and the doll as Surinder) that he will make Anushka fall in love with her and at the end where he expresses his desire that he would be the happiest man on earth if he can impress her being the calm and not so entertaining Surinder is one pointer to his good enough performance.The director and the screenplay writer deserve a big pat for this screen writing.

The other portrayal as Raj is good too.His pranks in the dance class and a bit of double meaning dialogues and his mannerisms(the way he  adjusts his pant) are quite comical.But  a bit of overacting can be sensed(But that is OK..It is not so annoying).The parts in which he says sentimental things between his stupid funny pranks proves essential for the film.(It helps him picking up her rite?.So shld b important :P).This role  shows SRK's ability to easily transform to any character with ease.Anushka never looks like a debutant.Anushka's part in which she suffers to make a decision between Surinder and Raj(both SRK) shows that she has some acting ability. She has done he part really well.SRK's friend  also deserves a appreciation.He has done  more than what is expected of him.

Climax of the movie is bit of a surprise.(few said that it was too good but i felt it was somewhat cinematic).Music of the film is good with some good decent number and  the background score too is just good enough.A small bit towards the end 'Tujh Mein Rab Dikhta Hai' sung by Sherya Goshal is truly among the high degree of good music.( loved it a lot).The first half an hour of the movie resembles somewhat like Mani Ratnam's Mouna Ragam.(but this is not so intense  like that).Over all this is truly a good movie to watch according to me.Check it out if possible.

There are a hell lot of things in this world which are completely mysterious and enigmatic.You can never say the reason or logic behind certain things.Have you ever come across a situation in which  you  knew for sure that something is very good but which has been termed or made a debacle by others.Ever scratched and shrinked your head to find the possible reason,which in no way exist according to you, over such matters?.I confronted such a scenario when i watched this movie sometime back.Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi did not create the "Rab"(magic) in the box office was the verdict when movie got released.So i did not watch the movie.But after 6 or 8 months down the line one of my friend said that the movie is worth watching and it was good.So i just got the DVD and checked it out.And after seeing i had to say it was really awesome movie in all possible aspects(I really can't see the reason why it did not do well).I thought it deserved a small appreciation from and thats why i wrote this?.More over i don't wanna write about anything else since i guess the way in which i would write with this mindset will please anyone no matter what i write.








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